带女儿海外旅居6年，我想说：“快乐教育只是国际学校的冰山一角…”
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010513" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010513"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p class="empty_paragraph" style="text-align: left; margin: 0px 8px; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><p style="text-align: left; margin: 0px 8px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: #3f3f3f;"> </span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">大家好。前段时间，我们陆续推出了几期中国父母带孩子海外求学的故事，很受大家欢迎。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">这些故事中的孩子有在海外发展得还不错；也有半路不适转轨回国的…</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">今天的故事也和“海外求学”有关，不过视角有些不同。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">故事主人公花友</span><span style="letter-spacing: 1px; color: #407600; font-size: 15px;">@喵姐爱芽酱</span><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> 一家住在吉隆坡，</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">扎根了6年，算是比较早的一批留学家庭。这么多年一路读下来，花友说：</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><section style="margin-right: 48px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 48px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; color: #7a4442;">“快乐教育”其实是“残酷教育”，想要孩子不掉队，比在国内更费妈。</span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 48px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 48px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 15px; color: #7a4442;"> </span></strong></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: #ffffff; border-style: solid; border-width: 2px; width: 100%; visibility: visible !important; height: auto;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FhR54AG3n0laMFrUx03z1CVV-_5Y" /></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: #888888;">近两年，吉隆坡的热度很高。根据马来西亚教育全球服务（Education Malaysia Global Services）统计，<span style="color: #888888; text-align: left; letter-spacing: 1px;">2023年马来西亚留学总人数中，中国学生占比54.99%，</span>中国学生来马来西亚留学与2022年相比增长20.62%</span></p><p style="text-align: left; margin: 0px 8px; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: left;"><span style="outline: 0px; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">今天的故事，是一份中国妈妈沉淀了6年的经历和经验。而且这份经验对想出国留学的家庭来说，也有很强的普世性和参考价值。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: left;"><span style="outline: 0px; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: left;"><span style="outline: 0px; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">看完后，也许你也会和我发出一样的感叹：原来带孩子到海外读书，有这么多的“坑”和隐藏的“雷”…</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: #ffffff;"><span style="outline: 0px; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: left;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: #ffffff;"><span style="outline: 0px; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: left;">感谢花友</span><span style="color: #407600;"><span style="outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: left; font-size: 15px;">@喵姐爱芽酱</span><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: left; outline: 0px;"> </span></span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: left; outline: 0px;">。</span></section><p style="text-align: left; margin: 0px 8px; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><section style="text-align: center; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="width: 100%; height: auto;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FjBlKqNVeyll22xW7gIcwao7WBhO" /></section><p style="text-align: left; margin: 0px 8px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">女儿在学校运动</span></p><p style="text-align: left; margin: 0px 8px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: #3f3f3f;"> </span></p><p style="text-align: center; margin: 0px 8px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">--以下为花友自述--</span></p><p style="text-align: left; margin: 0px 8px; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">算起来，我们家三口旅居吉隆坡的已整整6年，女儿也从幼儿园的小不点一路成长，下半年就是一名中学生了。</span></p><p> </p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">待的时间得比较久，和吉隆坡的多所国际学校家长学以及老师都有过交流，见过很多从国内带娃来“低龄留学” 的同胞。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">尤其是最近一两年，马来西亚突然变成了留学出海的小热门，来上学和访校的中国家庭越来越多。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_insertlocalimg" style="outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; visibility: visible !important; width: 100%; height: auto;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FhfjA0I-SeQ4-De__Tcou-6fVBL3" /></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">我们的同胞举家过来低龄留学的，大多数都集中在吉</span><span style="font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">隆坡和槟城两个城市，图片为<span style="color: #888888; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-align: left;">吉</span><span style="color: #888888; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-align: left;">隆</span><span style="color: #888888; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-align: left;">坡</span></span></p><p> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px;">这个国土面积不怎么大的国家，据不完全统计国际学校约有170多所。学费分阶段，小学阶段每年1-10w马币不等，初中比小学上调20%左右，高中再高些。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px;"> </span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 16px;">大体上学费的高低和欧美老</span><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">师的配比及学校其他软硬件相关，有些学校欧美师</span><span style="letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">（学历背景和教学经验也挺难尽）</span><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">配比不到10%。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">我想大家的愿景应该不是跑出来跟印度师马来师学习英语 —— 陈述事实，没有任何歧视的意思</span><span style="letter-spacing: 1px; color: #888888; font-size: 14px;">（非要杠，那就你说的都对）</span><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">学费按定比例每年增长，这是欧美国家私立学校的惯例，大学也样。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">按照学制分为英式、美式、澳洲学校、法国学校，德国学校也有，日本学校据我所知并不向国际学生开放招。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">个人看法，其实</span><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: #007aaa;"><strong>80%的国际学校都不值得举家搬迁甚至亲子分离式的只为“读国际学校”。</strong></span></p><p> </p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_insertlocalimg" style="outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 1.8px; text-align: center; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; visibility: visible !important; width: 100%; height: auto;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FqmVmeXTPU79eoIjZ6x5pBvOFQyW" /></span></section><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">吉隆坡的学校，图源网络</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">很多家庭兴师动众地搬来，算上搬家费、办理各类续的投资、孩子的教育学费…零零总总加，起步可能就是<strong>6位数以上的开销。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">做出离开自己熟悉的城市的决定，无非是想要用自己能够得着的资源让孩子的未来更有竞争力，最后换带来的，却不定是我们做父母的想要的结果。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">很有可能的情况是：到最后孩子英语不太行，中也不行，数学更不行。我这说的是<strong>学术水平</strong>，并非日常、用语聊天。</span><span style="letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">（为什么定强调是学术水平，因为跟申请大学相关，不考虑申请学，也就不必权衡那么多利弊了。<span style="color: #888888; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: left;">）</span></span></p><p> </p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">当然这应该是国际学校孩子面临的共同困境，并不只是来马来西亚才 会这样。</span></p><p> </p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">今天想回头看看我们家这6年的经历，给大家聊聊关于“吉隆坡留学的大实话话”：<strong>低龄留学勿冲动，些“宣传” 中的过多利好很有可能背后都是坑。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-wrap: wrap; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><em style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px; color: #d6a841; font-size: 24px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;">1</span></strong></span></em></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; text-wrap: wrap; color: #333333; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 20px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">入学2个月，被“快乐教育”当头棒喝</strong></span></p><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">起初，我也是更希望孩子能奔跑在阳光下而不是坐那边畅游涯的题海， 想要孩子无邪的笑容 ，健康快乐的长大。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">就是我们经常看见的，</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">国外的孩子普遍学得轻松快乐，孩脸上都是阳光，眼睛里有星星。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">于是，我们来了。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: #007aaa;"><strong><span style="color: #007aaa; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">但没想到女儿真正学仅仅2个月，我就被国际学校“快乐教育”给整不会了。</span></strong></span></section><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"> </p><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">我当时对欧美教育K12教育并没有那么深的认知，学校师资很强，每个师的履历都是光闪闪的。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"><span style="text-align: left; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">比如学校教学</span><span style="text-align: left; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">老师</span><span style="text-align: left; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">全部来自</span><span style="text-align: left; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">欧美</span><span style="text-align: left; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">，</span><span style="text-align: left; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">毕业于主流学，有着少</span><span style="text-align: left; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">十几年的</span><span style="text-align: left; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">教育经验 ，</span><span style="text-align: left; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">怎么样都能“上了国际学校，英语</span><span style="text-align: left; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">自然</span><span style="text-align: left; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">就学好了” 。</span></span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">比如孩子的第个师，既有教育学学位，还是位野动物物学家。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;">更何况<span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: left;">学校很很漂亮</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: left;">、</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: left;">图书馆好多书…</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: left;"> </span></section><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: left;"><strong><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_insertlocalimg" style="outline: 0px; color: #333333; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; text-align: center; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; visibility: visible !important; width: 100%; height: auto;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FgQbdW8tkfJ-zMiTQNjKn6eqOsmD" /></strong><br /></span></p><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">吉隆坡的学校，图源网络</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">我们很从容地开始“享受生活” ，逛吃逛吃，四处游玩，在家也只是佛系地给孩子读着中绘本。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">事实再次证明，相信“流蜚语”是太天真了。</span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">结果孩子在学校呆了2个多月了，和在国内的状态</span><span style="letter-spacing: 1px; color: #888888; font-size: 14px;">（她是个话痨）</span><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">大不同，变得不肯讲话，<strong>连被欺负了受了伤都不说。</strong></span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">队友度有点着急，担心孩子。</span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">尤其我们知道，孩如果不尽快适应学校全英语环境，影响自信、交朋友 ，与师交流以及未来的学习。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">学校是全英文教育，也意味着英语是未来孩学习切的基石，英文能决定了孩未来对其他所有学科的理解。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">这当中还存在着“Academic English”和“Oral English”的差 （hong）别（gou）。</span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="vertical-align: middle; color: #333333; font-family: Microsoft YaHei, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif, 宋体; text-align: center; background-color: #ffffff; width: 100%; display: inline-block; height: auto; border: 0px initial initial;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FqbdZq6caqoTrtdj-FZUA3jT5tEm" /></span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">女儿幼儿园时，每天早上6点10分起床，校车6点48分来接，由于日出时间是7点左右，看起来像是半夜就去上学了，有那么一点悲壮。</span></p><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">后来我到学校去开家长会，专门还向老师请教了这个问题：像我们这种中文母语的家庭，孩子的英语输入已经比英语母语的家庭少一半了。这种情况下，我们应该怎么才能更快地适应国际学校的节奏？</span></p><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">结果老师给的参考意见，就是：“She's amazing!”</span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">对着老师灼灼的光，她很认真且真诚地夸奖道：很多孩只会种语 ，但这么小的孩子已经在学习两种语，多好啊！</span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">我当时听完有点发懵，这回答给我整不会了。 </span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">美式教育果然很尊重孩子天性 ，想从老师这得到我想要的答案和法，看来暂时是没戏。</span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">后来观察了很久，我认为他们是没有对中国家庭做真正的分析和研究。从老师的角度来看，这么小的孩子既会说中文，又会说英文，是一件很棒的事情。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">更何况在他们的教育体系下，幼小阶段是以孩子的感受为主的，大班之前几乎就是“疯玩”。</span></p><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">更何况在他们的教育体系下，幼阶段相当尊重孩的感受 ，美国老师会觉得你们东亚母太push</span><span style="letter-spacing: 1px; color: #888888; font-size: 14px;">（也是事</span><span style="letter-spacing: 1px; color: #888888; font-size: 14px;">实，但美国就不push了吗？并不是）</span><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">。</span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="vertical-align: middle; color: #333333; font-family: Microsoft YaHei, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif, 宋体; text-align: center; background-color: #ffffff; width: 562px; display: inline-block; border: 0px initial initial;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FjvHT1-BGcddfS3pjykNfcq1KUEK" /></span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">学校里的手工展览</span></p><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">站在我们的度来看，学校给不出解决办法，也没有补足和加强，<strong>孩子英语的EAL课程进度很缓慢 …</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">打个比方就很像咱们国内的英语启蒙早教课，读本绘本，做做游戏等等。有会说，这么小的孩子，每天在学校读读绘本、做做游戏 ，你还想怎样？耐心等待， 总会好</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">的。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">我个的想法是，这样静待花开下去，步拖、步步拖，我孩子既会中也达不到学术水平 ，英学术能力也不怎么样。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">我们不可能在家英语讨论时事趣闻，甚不可能英语谈论电影电视剧 ，孩子很难在家庭活中从我们这接收到，除了诸如吃喝拉撒睡之外的英语表达。 </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">更何况，孩现在已经变得不爱表达了。</span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">学语，输不够，阅读来补。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">我们在家开始做原版阅读。本本 RAZ扎扎实实读下来，当时我也没想到的是，孩的英语能很快就上来了。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="vertical-align: middle; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; background-color: #ffffff; width: 676.992px !important; visibility: visible !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FpuYn0fCK9IDXQLrpMaj_w82T1gd" /></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">RAZ</span></p><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">师的评语第学期就变了，从不肯说话到越来越信，敢说话、能说、会说 …年后 ，甚还有同级美国的孩会在学校追着她，让她给大家读绘本。</span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-wrap: wrap; outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><em style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px; color: #d6a841; font-size: 24px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;">2</span></strong></span></em></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-wrap: wrap; outline: 0px; color: #333333; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 20px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><strong style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 20px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: left; white-space: normal; outline: 0px;">国际学校大概比国内更“卷”</strong></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #3f3f3f; letter-spacing: 1px;">海外长的孩子们会出现的问题，这的孩也避免不了。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">国际学校</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">会有的弊端，马来西亚的国际学校也样，并不是学校有优质毕业的记录，我孩读了年、年也能那样。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">就像进了重点中，就能保证985211录取吗？</span></p><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><p> </p></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">刚来时我一直很不理解，</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">美式教育里小学和初中都教得这么简单，但是到高中学业难度陡增，孩子怎么能跟上的？</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">轮到我的孩子走上这条路，慢慢地细细地观察推敲，</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">我才“恍然大悟”，原来这套“快乐教育”的背后这么残酷，<span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: left;">真是有阳光就有阴影。</span></span></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f;"><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: left;"> </span></span></span></p><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">随着女儿步步地长大，我的认知也在加深，所谓“快乐教育” 不过是 冰山角 ，漂浮在海的小块，海下藏着巨的、看不见的山体，可能还有摸不着的洋流“卷”你没商量。也许所有的“残酷”都被掩 映在了海下。</span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">我们的教育里，大家自然地很习惯被学校“推着”走，被大环境“推着走”。<span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: left;">不学，不完成作业，班主任、任课师群批评安排上。</span></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: #007aaa;"> </span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: #007aaa;">但在美式教育里，没人会Push你，学校不可能，老师更不可能。</span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">美国的教育习惯是让“强者更强，上不封顶” 。爬山难道还得有鞭赶着往上爬？</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">在山脚下看风景，在半山腰看风景，还是去山顶看风景，学校都是欣然包容的。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">在学阶段，学得很松弛，有些娃到了二三年级甚三四年级都不清 楚作业为何物。有个框架的引导建议，做不做凭愿觉。</span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">如学，吉隆坡绝部分国际学校都有着每天不低于20~30分钟的阅读要求。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">但是这个要求是<strong>没有任何督查机制的</strong>——没有检查，那完不完成、怎么完成凭觉，完成的进度条和完成质量，也全凭</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">愿。</span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><section style="margin-bottom: 0em; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="outline: 0px; visibility: visible !important; width: 100%; height: auto;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FoW-JO2ArPWuuqt9tH9X3wTdO74w" /></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">带孩子阅读的老师，图源网络</span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">实说， 孩在吉隆坡上学，我觉得也挺费妈 。跟国内上学可能不是种类型的费妈。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: #007aaa;"><strong>国内有小手工、手抄报费妈，国外有各种活动志愿</strong></span><span style="text-align: left; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: #007aaa;"><strong>者妈妈得频繁往学校跑。</strong></span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">在国内读书，尤其是在教育资源较好的线城市省会城市， 孩子学科学习跟着学校走都还是有谱的。 </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">如果想额外做拓展、拔高的</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">话，也有丰富且优质的量教育资源供选择——有考试有检测，有各课老师耳提命面。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">我</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">们必须得承认考试就是种输出， 光有输没有输出的学习，在没什么制力的孩子身上，还是显得有那么些不靠谱。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">而吉隆坡的本地教培水平相对落后，尤其马来西亚是数学的荒漠。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">看过个非官方数据，该国70%~80%的中毕业都是科。国际学校年级越往上，课外教培欧美师，就是水涨船的情。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">这种情况下，只能家里面挽起袖子多做做努力。所以课外，我带着孩子做了海量阅读 ，科普、 历史、数学、文学 …各个领域都有涉猎。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="vertical-align: middle; color: #333333; font-family: Microsoft YaHei, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif, 宋体; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: center; background-color: #ffffff; width: 100%; display: inline-block; height: auto; border: 0px initial initial;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FiMJVhc6cR_vsfuzntAIvSvBqYZx" /></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">课外带孩子读过的书</span></p><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">再回到学校来说，国际学校，有利有弊。活动多、玩得开，有足够的时间参加自己喜欢的课外活动 ——这也同时意味着，卷活动、卷乐器、卷艺术，卷竞技运动…</span><strong><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">没课本以及</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">极少量作业</span></strong><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">，部分学校学阶段没有正</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">式的考</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">试。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">没课本、没考试的弊端也蛮明显的 ——没课本也没法复习 。孩并不会因为学没有啥考试就不对考试产抵触情绪。也不会因为没啥作业就然然的爱上阅读。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">靠孩自觉？基础不牢，地动山摇。尤其放在数学上，</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">计算速度慢，是</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">普遍现象</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">有次在花看个花友提问“100题加 减混合30分钟完成算不算慢” ，我就想我家的四则运算20题就得要30</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">分钟。</span><span style="color: #888888; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px;">（</span><span style="color: #888888; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px;">有些家长会想，反正有计算器。然就前来看，国际考都在取</span><span style="color: #888888; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px;">消计算器使。</span><span style="color: #888888; font-size: 14px; letter-spacing: 1px;">）</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">在国际学校这么多年，我最深刻的体验就是</span><span style="text-align: left; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: #3f3f3f;"><strong>学校教育和家庭教育的相辅相成，</strong>相互补充，</span><span style="text-align: left; text-wrap: wrap; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">对孩子的成长更有益处。</span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-wrap: wrap; outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><em style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px; color: #d6a841; font-size: 24px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px;">3</span></strong></span></em></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-wrap: wrap; outline: 0px; color: #333333; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 20px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><strong style="color: #3f3f3f; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 20px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: center; text-wrap: wrap; background-color: #ffffff; outline: 0px;">和老师的沟通交流极容易“踩坑”</strong></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">还有一个“大坑”容易出现在“家校沟通”上。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">国际学校不像国内学校，每天早上固定要统一收缴作业，不交作业老师就要找孩子或家长，总之工作一定会做到位。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></p><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">吉隆坡的国际学校里，不交作业有些师会提醒孩，提醒几次之后如果还是不完成作业，也有可能会请家长来友情沟通，也可能只是Email通知家长。</span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">还有老师</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">表扬孩子“Well done”“He's a good boy.” </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: #007aaa;">来的久的家长们就会知道师所说的“good”，和我们想的“good”，很不样。</span></strong></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: center;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="width: 562px;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/Ftq5QFuamjzlsmSTdidEYEdHohbY" /></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">喜欢攀岩的女儿</span></p><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">在我们的教育，师动不动就夸，好像很难出现在公学校。可能班上第名，年级第名，师才会有热烈的夸赞 。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">欧美的教育，情况不样。</span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">尤其小小学，师励为主的“Very good”“Well done”，已经成为了他们的语习惯。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f;"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">我们可能被夸的浑然不知真正的基准线在哪里</span></strong></span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">，等到发现问题，搞不好已经初中。</span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">然而，欧美的教育筛选是残酷的，概可以断崖式筛选来形容。</span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">表面上看 ，会出现这样的情况：小学初中直“good”的孩 ，进入高中，学术上的要求陡增，有可能突然变得学业困难…</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-align: center; background-color: #ffffff; width: 562px; visibility: visible !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FtmL_GLAMRiTEeelieHKc1gUn5ic" /></span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">国际学校里的孩子来自全球不同的国家，图源网络</span></p><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">而国内的教育管理得相对严格，从小学开始老师对孩子的学术成绩就有要求。可能平均分95分，如果达不到95分，老师就会找家长来谈话，也会想办法帮孩子把成绩提上去。</span></p><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">而且国内教育对学术成绩的严格要求，也能让大家今早优化路线——也许小升初就已经觉察出孩子大概进不了重点初中了，也许中考就认清事实，转而规划出更贴合家庭的升学计划。</span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">但在国际学校中，追求和标准是不样的。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">如果说想靠上国际学校来冲学科成绩，还是有定的误解和过于美好滤镜的。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">在这种情况下， 家没有读国际学校的长远标，不做与标相对应的规划和引导， 很容易打个措不及与家庭愿景相距较远。</span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">还有除学业之外的家校沟通、如社交、如遭遇欺凌、如违法校规 …等等等等，有的时候并依靠Ai翻译就能顺利达成沟通。</span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-wrap: wrap; outline: 0px; color: #333333; letter-spacing: normal; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 20px;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">最后</strong><strong style="outline: 0px;">，一点小心得…</strong></span></p><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">如果有问，国内活国外活哪个好？ 国内教育国外教育哪个好？ 必须要诚实的说，各有各的好、各有各的弊，需要慎重考虑。</span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">我个看法，撇开经济因素不谈 ，</span><span style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px; color: #007aaa;"><strong>并不是所有家庭都适合走国际学校路线。</strong></span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">对，不是孩子，而是家庭。</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">有些家庭留在体制内公立学校，可能会更好。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">也有家长问过类似</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">留学两年学学英语再回国读书行不行？</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">非要折腾也不是不行，<strong>对于普通家庭，大概率是坑孩子，</strong>请谨慎权衡。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">说白了英语在现如今都算不上个“技能” ，更何况出了国英语就是日常所需。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">家庭协作 ，正确的学习方法，像国内也有很多上体制内学校的家庭，原版路线踏踏实实出来，孩照样能达到较的平。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">如果跑过来读国际学校只是想把孩丢给学校和本地机构，还抱着高远的理想，那就草率了。</span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">美式教育尊重孩子自由成长，学校和师都不会做“推” 的同时，也给予了很的由空间和时间给孩、给家庭安排。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">国际学校会有种岁静好快快乐乐的表象，高昂的学费之下其实样会有欺凌和同辈压力。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">如果仅仅是为了逃离“卷” ，等到反应过来很可能不只是失望，还有回不去的公学校，还有低龄留学带来的化及价值观的亲差异。</span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">今天并没有说国际学校多么多么不好的意思，而是实际上我们这辈更熟悉体制内教育的母会遭遇更多意料之外的挑战。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><strong><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">如果决定了带孩子出海留学，我们需要跟孩子站在起解决问题</span></strong><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">，别我们浑然不觉让孩独对。</span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-align: center; width: 100%; height: auto;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FqLORVDz4RYQVeTsaUO2G1O7_mFZ" /></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; white-space: normal; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">孩子在学校时</span></p><p> </p><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">如果孩已经了，实能打，又很想出国留学，公立高中国际部是更有性价的选择。或者国内的好学＋留学硕，也是很好的选择。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">根据不同的家庭情况，具体分析。</span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">还有种孩是天性<strong>确实很有特点，有相当的特长</strong>，学习却偏科等</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">等…在公</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">立</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">学校可能直被压抑、</span><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">甚打压。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">家庭教育虽然能有定的调节，但拧不过环境。到了国际学校，也许会有新机遇。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">还有就是已经计划好肯定会去美高，来马来西亚读年缓冲下，也未尝不可。</span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">偶尔有时候我会恍惚，我们家的小不点怎么下已经小学快毕业了，下个就是毕业典礼了，明明背着小猪佩奇的上学第天还历历在。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">现在想想，其实不管在国内还是国外，高中结束都躲不过那场厮杀。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">国际留学竞争的池，可不只是马来西亚的某几所国际学校啊~</span><p> </p></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; text-align: left; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: #3f3f3f; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1px;">很感谢大家能看到最后。愿我们都成长为更好的母，孩子成长为更好的自己~</span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0em; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; white-space-collapse: collapse; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0em; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; white-space-collapse: collapse; line-height: 1.75em;"><strong style="outline: 0px; color: #000000; font-size: 16px; text-align: left; text-indent: 0em; caret-color: #333333; white-space-collapse: preserve; background-color: #ffffff; letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><span style="outline: 0px; font-style: italic; color: #007aaa; font-family: -apple-system-font, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.54px;"> </span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0em; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space-collapse: collapse; caret-color: #222222; line-height: 1.75em;"> </p><p style="display: none;"> </p> <!----></div> 如果有问，国内活国外活哪个好？ 国内教育国外教育哪个好？ 必须要诚实的说，各有各的好、各有各的弊，需要慎重考虑。我个看法，撇开经济因素不谈 ，并不是所有家庭都适合走国际学校路线。
对，不是孩子，而是家庭。有些家庭留在体制内公立学校，可能会更好。
也有家长问过类似留学两年学学英语再回国读书行不行？
非要折腾也不是不行，对于普通家庭，大概率是坑孩子，请谨慎权衡。
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