知书达礼丨教育孩子的9个黄金法则（建议父母收藏）
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <section class="empty_paragraph" style="text-align: left;"></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; visibility: visible; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">今天给所有父母分享人民日报推荐的9个黄金教育法则，正确运用，就能事半功倍，助你培养出一个乐观、自律、自信的孩子。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; visibility: visible; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 18px;"> </span></section><section><section><section style="margin: 10px auto;"><section style="display: flex; justify-content: center; padding-bottom: 20px;"><section style="transform-style: preserve-3d;"><section style="display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; transform: translateZ(10px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(10px); -moz-transform: translateZ(10px); -ms-transform: translateZ(10px); -o-transform: translateZ(10px);"><section style="flex-shrink: 0;"><section style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: #ffffff; background-color: #488cfa; width: 30px; height: 30px; text-align: center; line-height: 30px;"><strong>0</strong><strong title="">1</strong></section></section></section><section style="padding-left: 15px; margin-top: -15px; padding-right: 10px; transform: translateZ(5px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(5px); -moz-transform: translateZ(5px); -ms-transform: translateZ(5px); -o-transform: translateZ(5px);"><section style="background-color: #f5f9fc; font-size: 16px; color: #488cfa; text-align: center; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 10px 20px;"><span style="font-size: 18px;"><strong>鱼缸法则</strong></span></section></section><section style="display: flex; justify-content: flex-end; margin-top: -20px; transform: translateZ(10px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(10px); -moz-transform: translateZ(10px); -ms-transform: translateZ(10px); -o-transform: translateZ(10px);"><section style="width: 30px; height: 0px; overflow: hidden;"></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #0080ff;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">让孩子自由成长，</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #0080ff;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">不要替他们做决定</strong></span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"><span style="outline: 0px; font-size: 16px;"> </span></p><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff;"><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; text-align: center; text-indent: 0em; line-height: 2em;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="outline: 0px; width: 661px !important; visibility: visible !important; height: auto !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FoA7jeNOrj2QNVU-Qpr3o_CKfnpe" /></section></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"> </p><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #000000;">小鱼放进鱼缸里，几年以后依然还是小鱼。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #000000;">但有一天，鱼缸被打破，小鱼放进池塘里，它们竟然奇迹般地长成了大鱼。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #0080ff;">教育也一样，只有打破“鱼缸”，才能让孩子获得更多发展，孩子的成长需要自由的空间。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #000000;">那些“很棒”的孩子，很有创造力的孩子，身边都有一个“善解人意”的妈妈，或本身就有创造能力的爸爸，也或者是某个很赏识他的创造才能、对他的“奇思妙想”很感兴趣的人。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #000000;">所以，请给孩子一个宽松的成长环境，让他们去主动探索和创造，自由发挥自己的才能，也放手让他们去试错，那才是孩子难得的人生财富。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #000000;">为人父母要懂得在合适的时间得体的退出，不要越俎代庖，替孩子管理人生，给孩子自由独立的空间，孩子才能飞得更高，走得更远。</span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"> </p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"> </p><section><section><section style="margin: 10px auto;"><section style="display: flex; justify-content: center; padding-bottom: 20px;"><section style="transform-style: preserve-3d;"><section style="display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; transform: translateZ(10px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(10px); -moz-transform: translateZ(10px); -ms-transform: translateZ(10px); -o-transform: translateZ(10px);"><section style="flex-shrink: 0;"><section style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: #ffffff; background-color: #488cfa; width: 30px; height: 30px; text-align: center; line-height: 30px;"><strong>0</strong><strong title="">2</strong></section></section></section><section style="padding-left: 15px; margin-top: -15px; padding-right: 10px; transform: translateZ(5px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(5px); -moz-transform: translateZ(5px); -ms-transform: translateZ(5px); -o-transform: translateZ(5px);"><section style="background-color: #f5f9fc; font-size: 16px; color: #488cfa; text-align: center; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 10px 20px;"><span style="font-size: 18px;"><strong>罗森塔尔效应</strong></span></section></section><section style="display: flex; justify-content: flex-end; margin-top: -20px; transform: translateZ(10px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(10px); -moz-transform: translateZ(10px); -ms-transform: translateZ(10px); -o-transform: translateZ(10px);"><section style="width: 30px; height: 0px; overflow: hidden;"></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #0080ff;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">对孩子进行积极期望</strong></span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px; font-size: 16px;"> </span></strong></p><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="outline: 0px; visibility: visible !important; width: 596px !important; height: auto !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FtqtEzudADUp-ci8eJXjhBMCHc5A" /></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"> </p><section style="text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #000000;">美国心理学家罗森塔尔对一所学校一到六年级18个班的学生进行了“未来发展趋势测验”，然后将一份“最有发展前途者”的名单交给了校长和老师，并嘱咐他们保密。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #000000;">8个月后，奇迹出现了：凡是上了名单的学生，成绩都有较大的进步，且性格活泼开朗，自信心强，求知欲旺盛，更乐于和别人打交道。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #000000;">有人可能对名单存在质疑，认为这些学生都是精挑细选出来的，然而事实真相却是，名单上的学生都是随机选出来的。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #000000;">因此，人们通常用这样一句话形象地说明罗森塔尔效应："说你行，你就行；说你不行，你就不行"。要想使一个人发展更好，就应该给他传递积极的期望，积极的期望促使人们向好的方向发展。</span></section><section style="text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #000000;">给父母的启示就是，</span><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #0080ff;">“数子十过，不如奖子一功。”多给予孩子期望和鼓励，那将改变孩子的人生。</span></section><section><section><section style="margin: 10px auto;"><section style="display: flex; justify-content: center; padding-bottom: 20px;"><section style="transform-style: preserve-3d;"><section style="display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; transform: translateZ(10px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(10px); -moz-transform: translateZ(10px); -ms-transform: translateZ(10px); -o-transform: translateZ(10px);"><section style="flex-shrink: 0;"><section style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: #ffffff; background-color: #488cfa; width: 30px; height: 30px; text-align: center; line-height: 30px;"><strong>0</strong><strong title="">3</strong></section></section></section><section style="padding-left: 15px; margin-top: -15px; padding-right: 10px; transform: translateZ(5px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(5px); -moz-transform: translateZ(5px); -ms-transform: translateZ(5px); -o-transform: translateZ(5px);"><section style="background-color: #f5f9fc; font-size: 16px; color: #488cfa; text-align: center; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 10px 20px;"><span style="font-size: 18px;"><strong>强化定律</strong></span></section></section><section style="display: flex; justify-content: flex-end; margin-top: -20px; transform: translateZ(10px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(10px); -moz-transform: translateZ(10px); -ms-transform: translateZ(10px); -o-transform: translateZ(10px);"><section style="width: 30px; height: 0px; overflow: hidden;"></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #0080ff;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">引导孩子培养好习惯</strong></span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px; font-size: 16px;"> </span></strong></p><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="outline: 0px; visibility: visible !important; width: 596px !important; height: auto !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FlvJQSXaBT9O4C_vAezwxbIONZT2" /></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"> </p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">教育家叶圣陶说：“教育的本质就是培养习惯”。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"> </p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">一个好习惯，就是一笔财富，会让人终身受益。让孩子养成好习惯，关键在于父母的引导和以身作则。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"> </p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">有一个“鲸鱼实验”：科学家在水里放一堵玻璃墙，鲸鱼和食物各放在一边。一开始，鲸鱼猛烈地撞击玻璃，但当它发现撞不开时，就放弃了。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"> </p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">后来科学家把玻璃墙拆了，鲸鱼却还以为那儿有一堵墙，便只在自己这边活动。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"> </p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">人的行为亦是如此，在一段时间或一些重复的经历后，就被固定起来，形成了习惯。</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"> </p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">因此，想要孩子养成阅读的习惯，就要每天定时和孩子一起读书；想要孩子养成运动的习惯，就要常常和孩子一起去锻炼；想要孩子养成不看手机的习惯，就不要整天在孩子面前捧着手机看……</span></p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"> </p><p style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="color: #0080ff;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">好习惯在于不断强化。</span><span style="font-size: 18px; text-indent: 2em;">一个行为反复养成习惯，习惯反复形成品质，品质改变命运。</span></span></p><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"> </p><section><section><section style="margin: 10px auto;"><section style="display: flex; justify-content: center; padding-bottom: 20px;"><section style="transform-style: preserve-3d;"><section style="display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; transform: translateZ(10px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(10px); -moz-transform: translateZ(10px); -ms-transform: translateZ(10px); -o-transform: translateZ(10px);"><section style="flex-shrink: 0;"><section style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: #ffffff; background-color: #488cfa; width: 30px; height: 30px; text-align: center; line-height: 30px;"><strong>0</strong><strong title="">4</strong></section></section></section><section style="padding-left: 15px; margin-top: -15px; padding-right: 10px; transform: translateZ(5px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(5px); -moz-transform: translateZ(5px); -ms-transform: translateZ(5px); -o-transform: translateZ(5px);"><section style="background-color: #f5f9fc; font-size: 16px; color: #488cfa; text-align: center; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 10px 20px;"><span style="font-size: 18px;"><strong>狼性法则</strong></span></section></section><section style="display: flex; justify-content: flex-end; margin-top: -20px; transform: translateZ(10px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(10px); -moz-transform: translateZ(10px); -ms-transform: translateZ(10px); -o-transform: translateZ(10px);"><section style="width: 30px; height: 0px; overflow: hidden;"></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #0080ff;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">培养孩子的好奇心</strong></span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px; font-size: 16px;"> </span></strong></p><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="outline: 0px; width: 661px !important; visibility: visible !important; height: auto !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FuCDdqaEk1EzsG-Kqir-5hPX8eqX" /></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"> </p><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">狼，是世界上好奇心最强的动物。它们不会将任何事物当成理所当然，而是倾向于亲身研究和体验。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">爱因斯坦说过：“我没有特别的才能，只有强烈的好奇心。永远保持好奇心的人是永远进步的人。”</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #0080ff;">好奇心是一切兴趣的起源，更是让孩子探索知识的无限动力。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">当孩子表现出对新鲜事物的好奇时，父母不要多做干预，更不要断然阻止。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">最智慧的方式是，鼓励孩子思考，引导他们提问，并放手让他们去尝试和探索。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">孩子充满好奇心，恰恰就是他们成长最好的途径。作为父母，就是尽自己所能保护孩子的好奇心，让兴趣成为他最好的老师。</span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"> </p><section><section><section style="margin: 10px auto;"><section style="display: flex; justify-content: center; padding-bottom: 20px;"><section style="transform-style: preserve-3d;"><section style="display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; transform: translateZ(10px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(10px); -moz-transform: translateZ(10px); -ms-transform: translateZ(10px); -o-transform: translateZ(10px);"><section style="flex-shrink: 0;"><section style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: #ffffff; background-color: #488cfa; width: 30px; height: 30px; text-align: center; line-height: 30px;"><strong>0</strong><strong title="">5</strong></section></section></section><section style="padding-left: 15px; margin-top: -15px; padding-right: 10px; transform: translateZ(5px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(5px); -moz-transform: translateZ(5px); -ms-transform: translateZ(5px); -o-transform: translateZ(5px);"><section style="background-color: #f5f9fc; font-size: 16px; color: #488cfa; text-align: center; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 10px 20px;"><span style="font-size: 18px;"><strong>梦想法则</strong></span></section></section><section style="display: flex; justify-content: flex-end; margin-top: -20px; transform: translateZ(10px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(10px); -moz-transform: translateZ(10px); -ms-transform: translateZ(10px); -o-transform: translateZ(10px);"><section style="width: 30px; height: 0px; overflow: hidden;"></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #0080ff;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">孩子的成长需要梦想</strong></span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"><span style="outline: 0px; font-size: 16px;"> </span></strong></p><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="outline: 0px; width: 661px !important; visibility: visible !important; height: auto !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FqyHKEu-ec2aioD_f1sr3sO0LJmX" /></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"> </p><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">在孩子小的时候就给他们种下一颗梦想的种子，重要吗？</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #0080ff;">当孩子明确了自己心中想要的，他所走的每一步都更踏实、更有力。</span></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">父母要做的就是，帮助孩子找到自己的梦想，并成为他们实现梦想路上的垫脚石和坚强后盾，支持、鼓励他们朝着自己的目标前进。</span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"> </p><section><section><section style="margin: 10px auto;"><section style="display: flex; justify-content: center; padding-bottom: 20px;"><section style="transform-style: preserve-3d;"><section style="display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; transform: translateZ(10px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(10px); -moz-transform: translateZ(10px); -ms-transform: translateZ(10px); -o-transform: translateZ(10px);"><section style="flex-shrink: 0;"><section style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: #ffffff; background-color: #488cfa; width: 30px; height: 30px; text-align: center; line-height: 30px;"><strong>06</strong></section></section></section><section style="padding-left: 15px; margin-top: -15px; padding-right: 10px; transform: translateZ(5px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(5px); -moz-transform: translateZ(5px); -ms-transform: translateZ(5px); -o-transform: translateZ(5px);"><section style="background-color: #f5f9fc; font-size: 16px; color: #488cfa; text-align: center; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 10px 20px;"><span style="font-size: 18px;"><strong>南风法则</strong></span></section></section><section style="display: flex; justify-content: flex-end; margin-top: -20px; transform: translateZ(10px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(10px); -moz-transform: translateZ(10px); -ms-transform: translateZ(10px); -o-transform: translateZ(10px);"><section style="width: 30px; height: 0px; overflow: hidden;"></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #0080ff;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">也叫“温暖法则”，</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #0080ff;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">教育孩子要讲究方式方法</strong></span></section><section><section style="outline: 0px; vertical-align: middle; display: inline-block; line-height: 0;"></section><section><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="outline: 0px; vertical-align: middle; width: 677px !important; visibility: visible !important; height: auto !important; display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FsUvzcmN2xB3066TZNzEhGMCs0TR" /></section></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; font-size: 16px;"><p style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">北风与南风比威力，看谁能把行人的大衣脱掉。北风寒冷刺骨，行人把大衣越裹越紧。南风徐徐吹动，温暖宜人，行人纷纷脱掉大衣。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"> </p><p style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">这就是著名的“南风法则”，也叫“温暖法则”。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"> </p><p style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #0080ff;">南风法则告诉人们：宽容是一种强于惩戒的力量。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"> </p><p style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">教育孩子同样如此，一味地批评指责，只会让孩子越来越叛逆、不听话。而给孩子足够的关爱与温暖，用和风细雨的教育方式，远比独断、粗暴的惩罚，更能起到效果。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"> </p><p style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">每个孩子都有可能会犯错，父母要包容孩子的缺点，客观、理智、科学地处理日常生活中出现的各种问题。体谅孩子的同时，从自身入手做好自己的修养工作，这样才能够更加好地教育孩子。</span></p></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"> </p><section><section><section style="margin: 10px auto;"><section style="display: flex; justify-content: center; padding-bottom: 20px;"><section style="transform-style: preserve-3d;"><section style="display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; transform: translateZ(10px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(10px); -moz-transform: translateZ(10px); -ms-transform: translateZ(10px); -o-transform: translateZ(10px);"><section style="flex-shrink: 0;"><section style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: #ffffff; background-color: #488cfa; width: 30px; height: 30px; text-align: center; line-height: 30px;"><strong>0</strong><strong title="">7</strong></section></section></section><section style="padding-left: 15px; margin-top: -15px; padding-right: 10px; transform: translateZ(5px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(5px); -moz-transform: translateZ(5px); -ms-transform: translateZ(5px); -o-transform: translateZ(5px);"><section style="background-color: #f5f9fc; font-size: 16px; color: #488cfa; text-align: center; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 10px 20px;"><span style="font-size: 18px;"><strong>自然惩罚法则</strong></span></section></section><section style="display: flex; justify-content: flex-end; margin-top: -20px; transform: translateZ(10px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(10px); -moz-transform: translateZ(10px); -ms-transform: translateZ(10px); -o-transform: translateZ(10px);"><section style="width: 30px; height: 0px; overflow: hidden;"></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #0080ff;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">让孩子承担过错，</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #0080ff;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">为自己的行为负责</strong></span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"> </p><section><section><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="outline: 0px; vertical-align: middle; width: 677px !important; visibility: visible !important; height: auto !important; display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/Fr7hfj_zHXa-Jpk0l-85srO9273q" /></section></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; font-size: 16px;"><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">法国教育家卢梭认为：“儿童所受到的惩罚，应是他的过失所导致的自然结果。”</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">因此他提出了“自然惩罚法则”。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #0080ff;">简单来说就是，给孩子机会去尝试，即使这是一件错误的事情，也让他们自己承担错误直接造成的后果，在自作自受中体验到痛苦的责罚，明白错误后果的严重性，学会自我反省，自觉弥补过失、纠正错误。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">比如孩子一定要坚持做某样事情，家长只需简单提醒即可，如果孩子不相信，可以让他按照自己的想法做，但产生的后果也让他独自承担。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">自然惩罚法则就是这样，强化痛苦体验，让孩子从中吸取教训。</span></section></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"> </p><section><section><section style="margin: 10px auto;"><section style="display: flex; justify-content: center; padding-bottom: 20px;"><section style="transform-style: preserve-3d;"><section style="display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; transform: translateZ(10px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(10px); -moz-transform: translateZ(10px); -ms-transform: translateZ(10px); -o-transform: translateZ(10px);"><section style="flex-shrink: 0;"><section style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: #ffffff; background-color: #488cfa; width: 30px; height: 30px; text-align: center; line-height: 30px;"><strong>0</strong><strong title="">8</strong></section></section></section><section style="padding-left: 15px; margin-top: -15px; padding-right: 10px; transform: translateZ(5px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(5px); -moz-transform: translateZ(5px); -ms-transform: translateZ(5px); -o-transform: translateZ(5px);"><section style="background-color: #f5f9fc; font-size: 16px; color: #488cfa; text-align: center; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 10px 20px;"><span style="font-size: 18px;"><strong>尊重法则</strong></span></section></section><section style="display: flex; justify-content: flex-end; margin-top: -20px; transform: translateZ(10px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(10px); -moz-transform: translateZ(10px); -ms-transform: translateZ(10px); -o-transform: translateZ(10px);"><section style="width: 30px; height: 0px; overflow: hidden;"></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #0080ff;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">心灵的成长需要尊重</strong></span></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #021eaa;"><strong style="outline: 0px;"> </strong></span></section><section><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="outline: 0px; vertical-align: middle; width: 677px !important; visibility: visible !important; height: auto !important; display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FlYLQWe20HdsufS-mKKWzy_DVDhk" /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; font-size: 16px;"><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">鲁迅先生说过，对待孩子“小的时候不把他当人，大了以后，也做不了人”。孩子会以我们对待他们的方式对待自己，对待整个世界。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #0080ff;">为人父母首先要给到孩子的就是尊重。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">研究表明，父母与子女之间关系平等、相互尊重、且保持沟通交流的家庭，孩子的智商明显比别的孩子高出许多。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">自尊心是不甘落后、相信自己不比别人差的一种情感体验。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">要让孩子真正长大成人，就应该让孩子从小就“站着”，而不是“趴着”去仰视那些大人物。这种对等的方式，可以让孩子有一个自信和健全的人格。</span></section></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"> </p><section><section><section style="margin: 10px auto;"><section style="display: flex; justify-content: center; padding-bottom: 20px;"><section style="transform-style: preserve-3d;"><section style="display: flex; justify-content: flex-start; transform: translateZ(10px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(10px); -moz-transform: translateZ(10px); -ms-transform: translateZ(10px); -o-transform: translateZ(10px);"><section style="flex-shrink: 0;"><section style="font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 1.5px; color: #ffffff; background-color: #488cfa; width: 30px; height: 30px; text-align: center; line-height: 30px;"><strong>0</strong><strong title="">9</strong></section></section></section><section style="padding-left: 15px; margin-top: -15px; padding-right: 10px; transform: translateZ(5px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(5px); -moz-transform: translateZ(5px); -ms-transform: translateZ(5px); -o-transform: translateZ(5px);"><section style="background-color: #f5f9fc; font-size: 16px; color: #488cfa; text-align: center; letter-spacing: 1.5px; padding: 10px 20px;"><span style="font-size: 18px;"><strong>延迟满足法则</strong></span></section></section><section style="display: flex; justify-content: flex-end; margin-top: -20px; transform: translateZ(10px); -webkit-transform: translateZ(10px); -moz-transform: translateZ(10px); -ms-transform: translateZ(10px); -o-transform: translateZ(10px);"><section style="width: 30px; height: 0px; overflow: hidden;"></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><section style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #0080ff;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">培养孩子的耐心</strong></span></section><p style="margin-right: 8px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 8px; outline: 0px; color: #222222; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-indent: 0em; white-space: normal; background-color: #ffffff; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"> </p><section style="white-space: normal;"><section><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="vertical-align: middle; outline: 0px; font-size: 16px; text-align: center; background-color: #ffffff; width: 578.328px !important; visibility: visible !important; height: auto !important; display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FqnI2ePGkH9LTFDZxtqC1zU61pmK" /></section></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; white-space: normal; outline: 0px; background-color: #ffffff; font-size: 16px;"><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">美国有个著名的“糖果实验”：数十名儿童，每个人都单独坐在一个小教室里，桌上摆着他们爱吃的糖果。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">研究人员告诉孩子们，可以马上吃掉糖果，但没有任何奖励。也可以等研究人员回来后再吃，这样可以额外再多得到一块糖果。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">大多数孩子抵制不了糖果的诱惑，选择直接吃了，只有一小部分孩子坚持不吃糖果，直到研究人员归来。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">后来研究追踪发现，</span><span style="font-size: 18px; color: #0080ff;">那些能够忍住诱惑的孩子在未来的人生中目标更加明确，更能抵得住短期利益，在事业上也更容易取得成功。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">这就是“延迟满足法则”。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">在教育孩子方面，也衍生出了“延迟满足”育儿法，来培养孩子的耐心。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">就是在孩子提出需求的时候，不立即满足他，而是要设置一些条件，让孩子在等待和坚持中，培养耐心、意志力和毅力。</span></section><section style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em; margin-left: 8px; margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 18px;"> </span></section><p style="outline: 0px; text-align: left;"><span style="outline: 0px; font-size: 18px; color: #0080ff;"><strong style="outline: 0px;">写在最后</strong></span></p><p style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">什么样的家庭环境就决定着什么样的家庭教育，家庭教育之源是父母教育。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">父母教育是根基，虽然看不到但却相当重要，它为整个大树汲取营养。你不能期望贫瘠的树根能结出丰硕的果实。</span></p><p style="outline: 0px; text-indent: 2em; line-height: 2em;"><span style="font-size: 18px;">合格的父母应该要做孩子一生的榜样，帮助孩子成为最好的自己。</span></p></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.544px; background-color: #ffffff; visibility: visible;"><p style="outline: 0px; text-align: center; visibility: visible;"> </p></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; outline: 0px; font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.578px;"><section style="outline: 0px; 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