失眠随笔：人到中年，心归平静
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>回金边近一个月，在临时的住处，过着宅男的生活。有事了才偶尔出去，饿了点外卖，无聊了就看手机，慢慢习惯了孤独，也许这是中年人该有的生活方式。</p><p> </p><p>记得之前在金边的时候，自己总喜欢热闹，身边总是围绕着很多人，约茶约酒约饭是常有的事。他们或真心想与你交往，或与你虚情假意，或因为你还有一点点利用价值，只要自己不孤独就好。</p><p> </p><p>如今人到中年，已渐渐看尽人世间繁华落尽，看遍繁花万千，看透人心冷暖，看开人生苦短。要学会静下心来，承受压力，忍受孤独，享受宁静。既然不可能善行天下，也至少努力做到独善其身。</p><p> </p><p>诸葛亮说过“非淡泊无以明志，非宁静无以致远”，这是很有人生哲理的一句话。中年人面临很大的家庭、生活的压力和社会的巨大竞争，更需要做到“淡泊明志，宁静致远”。</p><p> </p><p>如果不能做到淡泊宁静，而是带着急功近利的心态，就容易走弯路、走错路，甚至造成终身遗憾。</p><p> </p><p>昨天朋友说陪他一起去乡下和领导谈农业投资的事情，我不加思索就答应。趁现在仍闲时，远离喧嚣的金边，去品尝乡下的那份悠闲与宁静，何乐而不为？</p><p> </p><p>当你学会了淡泊宁静，就要努力先明志，而后争取尽快致远。希望在柬的中年朋友都早日心想事成！</p><p> </p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/forum/20250327051157front2_0_799739_FnpaaiuwvCXS0EjRgE0gKv0-LqqO.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLjU4Y2FtbXAuY29tL2FkbWluX0Z1cUVMWGRZWVNZUEE2WnBub01EdTFXTi1CYW0ucG5n/dissolve/90/gravity/SouthEast" alt="" width="963" height="1284" data-qf-origin="forum/20250327051157front2_0_799739_FnpaaiuwvCXS0EjRgE0gKv0-LqqO.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLjU4Y2FtbXAuY29tL2FkbWluX0Z1cUVMWGRZWVNZUEE2WnBub01EdTFXTi1CYW0ucG5n/dissolve/90/gravity/SouthEast" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/forum/20250327051157front2_0_799739_Fo6ts0yvJedl3ZbqA5slVAD_E__3.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLjU4Y2FtbXAuY29tL2FkbWluX0Z1cUVMWGRZWVNZUEE2WnBub01EdTFXTi1CYW0ucG5n/dissolve/90/gravity/SouthEast" alt="" width="960" height="960" data-qf-origin="forum/20250327051157front2_0_799739_Fo6ts0yvJedl3ZbqA5slVAD_E__3.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLjU4Y2FtbXAuY29tL2FkbWluX0Z1cUVMWGRZWVNZUEE2WnBub01EdTFXTi1CYW0ucG5n/dissolve/90/gravity/SouthEast" /></p><p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/forum/20250327051157front2_0_799739_FlNVoY5yvDFl9ppxr8Sx5xehbZae.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLjU4Y2FtbXAuY29tL2FkbWluX0Z1cUVMWGRZWVNZUEE2WnBub01EdTFXTi1CYW0ucG5n/dissolve/90/gravity/SouthEast" alt="" width="960" height="1280" data-qf-origin="forum/20250327051157front2_0_799739_FlNVoY5yvDFl9ppxr8Sx5xehbZae.jpg?watermark/1/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLjU4Y2FtbXAuY29tL2FkbWluX0Z1cUVMWGRZWVNZUEE2WnBub01EdTFXTi1CYW0ucG5n/dissolve/90/gravity/SouthEast" /></p><p> </p> <!----></div> <!-- 附件--> <div class="pay_annex"> <div class="annex_info"> <img src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/static/publish/images/pay_icon3.png" class="icon"/> <div class="info_txt"> <div class="info_name">附件内容，请下载柬单网APP查看哦~</div> </div> </div> </div>
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