中国热点 发表于 2025-5-22 13:11:46

4000多万负债,让我下决心回国接家里箱包厂

<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712"><!--    付费贴-->    <div class="preview_article ">            <!---->    <section class="empty_paragraph" style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-wrap: wrap; text-align: center; margin-bottom: 0px;"></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.578px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="font-size: 17px; letter-spacing: 0.034em; width: 546px; height: 546px;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/Fp1jFafYLjKa2ju4GBLxYSM4pyCW" /></section><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px;"><section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;"><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;"><section style="padding-right: 16px; padding-left: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.578px;"><section style="margin-bottom: 32px; justify-content: center; line-height: 1.6em;"><section style="padding: 8px 16px 5px; display: inline-block; width: 545.781px; background-color: #efefef; border: 1px none #c0c8d1;"><span style="text-decoration: none solid rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.578px;"><span dir="LTR"><span style="font-size: 16px;">&ldquo;这3年多,我无数次想放弃,却又无数次把自己&lsquo;哄好&rsquo;,继续坚持下去。&rdquo;</span></span></span></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">在&ldquo;继承家业Vlog&rdquo;的第二期视频中,沈若伊第一次用手机记下了自己哭的镜头。</span></span></span></p><p style="margin: 32px 16px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">那天,作为要继承家业的二代,她兴致勃勃地去给妈妈的直播间提建议,但被泼了&ldquo;你不打粮食,就不要来指导我&rdquo;的冷水。</span></span></p><p style="margin: 32px 16px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">这句话在沈若伊听起来倍感刺耳,言外之意&mdash;&mdash;自己所争取的流量没有任何变现,做不出业绩,别讲话。沈若伊又争辩了几句,但得到的依然是妈妈的反驳。</span></span></p><p style="margin: 32px 16px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">离开办公室后,她越想越难受,忍不住掉下眼泪,自己一个人默默哭了一会儿后,又突然想到同事曾提醒自己,伤心也不能独自消化伤心,记录下来,也许这段故事之后可以作为素材放在视频中讲讲,于是沈若伊只能边哭边架起手机。</span></span></p><p style="margin: 32px 16px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">伤心也不能&ldquo;白伤心&rdquo;,这可能就是流量当道时,一个要接班的厂二代所必须的自我修养。</span></span></p><p style="margin: 32px 16px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">沈若伊是浙江卡拉扬集团的&ldquo;接班人&rdquo;。卡拉扬由其母亲张新华和父亲沈自洪在1996年创立于浙江省海宁市,是一家集设计、生产、销售一体化的集团型箱包企业,旗下拥有箱包品牌卡拉羊、独白等。在2020年之前,卡拉扬线下业务营收占比达78%,巅峰期旗下有3000多家店铺。</span></span></span></p><section style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FtTpUDA3yoDHTGxY0AJyYiL974tw" /></section><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">2020年之后,面对线下销售缩水的态势,卡拉扬果断调整经营策略,核心产品品类转换为学生书包,重心转移至线上渠道。2023年,集团年产值达6.3亿元,2024年年产值同比增长35%。</span></span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">2019年,在现实的驱动下,沈若伊逐步进入父母一手创立起来的卡拉羊品牌,从0开始,曾在多个部门学习。现在担任卡拉羊的品牌传播经理。</span></span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">她坦言,在公司工作的3年多时间里,与资深员工的磨合、与父母的冲突时刻,都令自己无数次想放弃接班。</span></span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">但在这3年时间里,她曾打造了一个&ldquo;芝士箱&rdquo;,卖了超3500万元GMV(商品交易总额),她一手策划的&ldquo;厂二代&rdquo;IP账号也实现了破圈,曾在全网实现超1亿的播放量。近期,沈若伊负责的副线品牌&ldquo;独白&rdquo;上线第一场直播,单场售出超5500单。</span></span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #ab1942; font-weight: bold;">这些正反馈,对于走在从0到1路上的沈若伊来说,必要且重要,是鼓励其坚持下去的最大动力。</span><span style="font-size: 16px;">作为家中长女,接班已是一件板上钉钉之事,现在的沈若伊也更坚定地相信,未来自己能扛起父母打下的基业。</span></span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; font-weight: bold;">以下为沈若伊的自述(有删减):</span></span></span></p><section style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><p>&nbsp;</p></section><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 8px; margin-left: 16px; line-height: 1.6em;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-indent: 0em; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); color: #222222; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-size: 15px; font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; width: 150px !important; visibility: visible !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FvpScAhVP7BJ9JYL0aFNcIWpQBve" alt="图片" /></p><section style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 等线;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;"><span style="font-size: 20px; font-weight: bold;">长女的&ldquo;驱动力&rdquo;</span></span></span></section><p style="margin: 32px 16px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="font-family: 等线;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">从我记事起,父母就已经开始创业了,经常早出晚归,很少管我,更多的时候是爷爷奶奶陪着我。</span></span></span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="font-family: 等线;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">即便是同一个屋檐下,我和他们也很难见面,即便见到了,父母经常是处于吵架的状态。</span></span></span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="font-family: 等线;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">现在的我可能会理解他们创业初期的争论,本质上是为了使公司越做越好。但小时候的我,却因此非常没有安全感。我还记得那个时候父母吵架时,我经常一边装睡,一边担心我们家会不会因为父母做箱包而破裂。</span></span></span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="font-family: 等线;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">种种事迹,都在我心里埋下了种子,让我觉得接班做箱包太辛苦了,家人也不适合共事。因此,很长一段时间,我在心理上非常抗拒接班这件事情。</span></span></span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="font-family: 等线;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">直到2014年,我18岁时,妈妈生下了双胞胎妹妹,我从家里的独生女变成了长女。不知道为何,我逐渐感受到一种从孩子向大人过渡的转变,肩上有了责任。</span></span></span></span></p><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-align: center;"><a href="https://j.youzan.com/gmHW3p" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span class="js_jump_icon h5_image_link"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="height: 320px; width: 246px;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FjZO8OrNUgBNXk0dc5p222efd-lq" /></span></a></section><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; margin-left: 16px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-align: center; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-size: 12px;">《中国企业家》杂志</span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="font-family: 等线;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">在心态转变的基础上,2016年公司遭遇了一次重大打击。当时,因为担保的问题,公司一下子有了4000多万元负债,账面上仅剩300多万元,这件事重创了我所有的家人,包括我自己。后来我才知道,当时,父母也是咬着牙支持我把书读完了。</span></span></span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="font-family: 等线;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">如果接班有个进度条的话,</span><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #ab1942; font-weight: bold;">这件事情发生后,我心里已70%接受回国要接班的现实了。</span><span style="font-size: 16px;">我必须要承担起父母一手打下的事业。我在大学里主修的是时尚设计,卡拉扬主营的箱包业务也与时尚设计相关。于是,刚毕业时,我首先想到的是先在外面积累经验,再将大公司的时尚设计技能带回家族企业。</span></span></span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="font-family: 等线;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">但我真的太天真了。毕业后,我一直未能找到合适的工作。我妈听说后,就让我回家上班。她说,每个月给你开5500元工资。就这样,隔天我就&ldquo;进厂&rdquo;了。</span></span></span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="font-family: 等线;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">初期,我以轮岗的形式尝试了市场部、摄影组、天猫运营、商品部等多个部门。在商品部的一年多时间里,我还参加了与华为合作开发智能书包、行李箱的项目,其间还&ldquo;半工半读&rdquo;完成硕士学业。2023年年底,拿到硕士学位的我,正式加入了卡拉扬。</span></span></span></span></p><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px; margin: 32px 16px 8px;"><strong><strong><span style="font-family: MicrosoftYaHei;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-indent: 0em; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); color: #222222; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-size: 15px; font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; width: 150px; visibility: visible !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FqYQKGFn11dCLw3CdGBcNZV21Z-a" alt="图片" /></span></strong></strong></section><section style="margin-bottom: 32px; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;"><strong><strong><span style="font-family: 宋体;"><span style="font-size: 20px; font-weight: bold;">&ldquo;101次&rdquo;想放弃接班</span></span></strong></strong><p style="margin: 32px 0px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">但真正的接班生活,和我想象中的差异实在是太大了。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">在我的账号下方,有很多网友会认为,老板是发号施令者,只需说出指令,下属便去执行。起初,我也是这么认为的,但很快就被&ldquo;打脸&rdquo;了。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">去年年初,我被安排在直播间担任助播岗位,同时兼任我妈也就是总经理的小助理。她说,既然已给我设了总经理助理的职位,那我的思考和行为就应与她保持一致,考虑她所关注的事情。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">在一次直播后,她派我给团队复盘,我没多想就直接过去了。我本身就是个内向的人,语气客气地请大家各自分析直播的优缺点,但大家只是微笑着不置可否,随后便散开了,没有一个人理我。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">我很尴尬地对我妈说,我去尝试帮你复盘了,但他们都走了。她说,看吧,当老板没那么简单,即便我给了你总经理助理的头衔,但你还是做不成复盘这件小事。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">那天,她第一次向我解释为什么许多人会认为她变得唠叨了。</span><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #ab1942; font-weight: bold;">她告诉我,若想带领团队做好一件事,必须反复强调事情的目的、好处和后果,大家才会理解并行动。简单的一次指令,达不到任何效果。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">这件事也点醒了我。我提出建议时,大家表面应和,实则内心不认可,甚至嘲讽&ldquo;她懂什么&rdquo;,本质上是不认可我这个&ldquo;二代&rdquo;拿着老板赋予的身份或头衔就来下命令的行为。</span><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #ab1942; font-weight: bold;">真正想获得团队成员的服从,只有做出成绩这一条路。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">不仅是团队成员不认可,对于没有成绩的二代,就连父母的耐心也是有限度的。有段时间,我觉得现有的直播视觉效果不够多样,于是提出想打造一个新的直播间的想法。恰好,我妈计划在5楼重新装修三个高档直播间,我便趁机给她提了建议。</span></span></p><section style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 32px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/Fl8sNhdLSnkuPZ8lvMEB27x1VF-x" /></section><p style="margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">其实,当时我妈对新直播间的设计已有了想法,但她还是把我叫了过去。于是,我提出将其中一个直播间打造成偏法式居家风格,因为行李箱和女包的真实使用场景多在家庭,而不是工厂或专柜,这样更有代入感。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">听我说完后,她非常生气地否决了,并说我不打粮食,就不要来指导她。言外之意是,我的流量没有变现,没有做出业绩,就不要指导她做事。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">从妈妈口中说出的这些话,令我非常伤心。那一瞬间,我觉得我正在做的事情是不被理解,不被认可的,品牌传播经理的岗位没有任何意义。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">我试图向妈妈解释我的想法,她依然否决,不给我任何机会。从她办公室出来后,我没忍住就哭了。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">后来我把这段素材放进了视频中,发布后,很多人质疑我到底是真哭还是假哭。眼泪当然是真的,但是我很难去跟网友解释不被理解背后的委屈。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">自省已成为我每天的必修课,但仍要遭受来自外界的接二连三的打击与否定,特别是和父母的冲突,真的很伤感情。包括自媒体的工作,即使我每天都在竭尽全力修改,但数据仍可能不佳,负面反馈也是常有的事情。以上种种,让我突然觉得接班工作毫无意义。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">那次争吵后,我第&ldquo;101&rdquo;次萌生了放弃接班的念头,但后来我边哭边安慰自己,像过去一样把自己哄好,继续手头的工作。到了第二天,生活、工作、接班一切都如过去那样按部就班。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">其实,接班3年多以来,我无数次想放弃,但却又无数次把自己&ldquo;哄好&rdquo;,继续坚持下去,有时候我也会问自己,不然还能怎么办呢?</span></span></p></section><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 8px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="font-family: 等线;"><strong><strong><span style="font-family: MicrosoftYaHei;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; outline: 0px; text-indent: 0em; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); color: #222222; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-size: 15px; font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; width: 150px; visibility: visible !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FmWSogqYyRy9voit5NnFsCpTfmys" /></span></strong></strong></span></p><section style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px;"><strong><span style="font-family: 宋体;"><span style="font-size: 20px; font-weight: bold;">接班后更理解父母</span></span></strong></section><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">像我父母那辈的企业家,他们白手起家创立企业,往往有着他们那个时期的独特印记。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">比如,我父母坚信吃苦耐劳精神,这种精神和文化慢慢也成为我妈身上鲜明的个人魅力,她本人也成为公司核心精神的代表,不停地在用实际行动影响团队。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">前几年,我妈提出公司要开展短视频和直播带货业务,这个建议却遭遇了巨大的反对声浪。很多员工会觉得自己不是主播也无才艺,为什么要去做这样的事情。为了打消团队的顾虑,她只能亲自下场直播,将这一业务做成功,用实际行动向大家证明可行性,员工们才愿意跟随她的步伐,共同推动公司向前发展。</span></span></p><section style="text-align: justify; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FmFtR0ubMGsidMEoPGK7nSEGqmzX" /></section><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px; color: #ab1942; font-weight: bold;">&ldquo;企二代&rdquo;接班,要扮演的其实也是凝聚精气神、为团队&ldquo;打样&rdquo;的角色。因为一件事,只有你先做好了,别人才会理解,并跟着你一起前进。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">这个想法也逐步在实际的接班中,得到了验证。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">最近,我们开设了一个副线品牌&ldquo;独白&rdquo;,并推出了一款女包,它在首场直播中就售出了5500个,这对我来说是一个极大的鼓舞。这让我意识到,自己长期积累的流量终于有了转化的可能性,不再仅是一个抽象的数字。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">这些正反馈,也让我得到了更多的认可。我感受最明显的是大家开始重视我的建议,比如当大家在谈论产品如何改进时,也会询问我的意见,也让我参与直播选款工作,我在团队中的话语权有所提升了。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">越深入公司业务,我越理解创业时期的父母,甚至更像他们了。我从刚开始接班时的朝九晚五&ldquo;打工人&rdquo;、公司螺丝钉的心态,渐渐变成管理者心态,我能感受到公司、团队对我有了更高的期待值。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">我也变得更努力了,工作成了肌肉记忆,经常两眼一睁就是干,每天都要计算每一分钱是否都花在了刀刃上,周末偶尔休息一下,我内心还会隐隐有些负罪感,特别是当想到我休息时父母还在辛苦工作,我就会问自己凭什么休息。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">如果满分是100分的话,我会给我这3年半的接班工作打60分。一方面,我已经克服了很多困难,对公司的业务模型有了初步了解,但未来还有很多空白的部分等待着我去攻克。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">我现在主理的女包品牌&ldquo;独白&rdquo;,未来肯定是公司的一个重点业务,因为在我看来,中国市场缺少兼具优质产品、有调性传达和合理价格的女包品牌,这一领域大有可为,于我而言,也是一个值得抓住的机会。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; margin-bottom: 32px; line-height: 1.6em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16px;">来源:中国企业家</span></span></p><section style="margin-bottom: 0px; letter-spacing: 0.578px; outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;"><section style="outline: 0px;"><section style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.544px; white-space: normal; 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柬巴基印度印尼 发表于 2025-5-22 16:49:16

高大上啊,欠银行的钱这个月准时还啊,

楚香阁098661188 发表于 2025-5-23 01:21:04

上链接

柬埔寨建筑 发表于 2025-5-23 02:31:46

还是有这样的事啊!

A000000王中王 发表于 2025-5-23 03:15:51

是这样的事啊!
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