【夜读】什么样的家庭可以培养出优秀的孩子
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vertical-align: bottom; width: auto; align-self: flex-end; flex: 0 0 auto; min-width: 5%; height: auto; padding-right: 6px; padding-left: 8px;"><section style="font-size: 18px; text-align: justify; color: #9ad4f2;"><p><strong>父母品行好的家庭 </strong></p></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; width: auto; min-width: 5%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: flex-end; margin-left: -11px;"></section></section><section style="text-align: justify;"><p> </p></section><section style="font-size: 18px; text-align: justify;"><p> 孩子优秀与否，与父母对孩子的家庭教育是否正确息息相关。<span style="font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em;">家长是孩子的第一任老师，也是孩子永远的榜样。</span></p><p><span style="letter-spacing: 0.612px;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em;"> <span style="color: #3e3e3e; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 0.612px; background-color: #effaff;">好的品行，是一个人为人处事的根本。</span>而拥有好的品行并非朝夕之功，它需要父母用日复一日的言传身教，在孩子心中种下正直、善良与担当的种子，直至这些品质生根发芽。</span></p><p> </p><p> 在父母品行好的家庭里长大的孩子，更加懂得一个道理：一个人只有踏实做事、本分做人、无愧于心，才能在人生路上稳步畅行。</p></section></section></section></section><section></section><section></section><section></section><section></section><section style="font-size: 16px; color: #3e3e3e;"><section style="text-align: center; justify-content: center; display: flex; flex-flow: row; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: 99%; vertical-align: top; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; background-color: #effaff; padding: 22px; height: auto;"><section style="justify-content: center; display: flex; flex-flow: row; margin-top: 10px;"><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: auto; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; min-width: 5%; height: auto;"></section><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: auto; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; background-color: #eefaff; margin-left: -14px; min-width: 5%; height: auto; padding: 7px;"><section style="text-align: left; justify-content: flex-start; display: flex; flex-flow: row;"><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; width: auto; min-width: 5%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: flex-end;"><section style="text-align: center;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: 46px; height: 36px; vertical-align: top; overflow: hidden; background-repeat: no-repeat; background-attachment: scroll; background-image: url('https://pic.app.58cammp.com/Fi-qiknxqZlLyFko76tnpep8ClA0'); background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-size: contain !important;"><section style="margin-top: 4px;"><section style="color: #ffffff;"><p><strong>2</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; width: auto; align-self: flex-end; flex: 0 0 auto; min-width: 5%; height: auto; padding-right: 6px; padding-left: 8px;"><section style="font-size: 18px; text-align: justify; color: #9ad4f2;"><p><strong>懂得尊重的家庭 </strong></p></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; width: auto; min-width: 5%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: flex-end; margin-left: -11px;"></section></section><section style="text-align: justify;"><p> </p></section><section style="font-size: 18px; text-align: justify;"><p><span style="font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em;"> 健康成长中的孩子，除了有爱，更应该有尊重。</span><span style="font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em;">这种尊重，不是溺爱般地让他想做什么就做什么，也不是冰冷地训斥“说了不能做就是不能做”，而是让孩子在自主选择中成长、学会承担后果，而非被强行规划人生。</span></p><p> </p><p> 家长不仅要尊重孩子，更要尊重他人，孩子在这样的环境长大，不仅学会自尊，也学会尊重他人。</p></section></section></section></section><section></section><section></section><section></section><section style="font-size: 16px; color: #3e3e3e;"><section style="text-align: center; justify-content: center; display: flex; flex-flow: row; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: 99%; vertical-align: top; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; background-color: #effaff; padding: 22px; height: auto;"><section style="justify-content: center; display: flex; flex-flow: row; margin-top: 10px;"><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: auto; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; min-width: 5%; height: auto;"></section><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: auto; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; background-color: #eefaff; margin-left: -14px; min-width: 5%; height: auto; padding: 7px;"><section style="text-align: left; justify-content: flex-start; display: flex; flex-flow: row;"><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; width: auto; min-width: 5%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: flex-end;"><section style="text-align: center;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: 46px; height: 36px; vertical-align: top; overflow: hidden; background-repeat: no-repeat; background-attachment: scroll; background-image: url('https://pic.app.58cammp.com/Fi-qiknxqZlLyFko76tnpep8ClA0'); background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-size: contain !important;"><section style="margin-top: 4px;"><section style="color: #ffffff;"><p><strong>3</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; width: auto; align-self: flex-end; flex: 0 0 auto; min-width: 5%; height: auto; padding-right: 6px; padding-left: 8px;"><section style="font-size: 18px; text-align: justify; color: #9ad4f2;"><p><strong>懂得情绪管理的家庭 </strong></p></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; width: auto; min-width: 5%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: flex-end; margin-left: -11px;"></section></section><section style="text-align: justify;"><p> </p></section><section style="font-size: 18px; text-align: justify;"><p> 长期处于家长负面情绪下的孩子，容易出现两种极端：要么变得暴躁易怒，要么因缺乏理解而与父母渐行渐远。<br /><br /></p><p> 反之，如果家长能控制好情绪，为孩子营造积极正向的成长环境，孩子也更有可能成为善于管理情绪的人。当孩子面对问题时，就能理性思考，而不被情绪左右。<br /><br /></p><p> 一个人所在的原生家庭对他一生的影响都很大。家庭和谐，在充满爱的环境里长大的孩子，注定要比整日吵闹的家庭里成长的孩子要开心、阳光很多。</p></section></section></section></section><section></section><section></section><section><span style="font-size: 18px;"> </span></section><section style="font-size: 16px; color: #3e3e3e;"><section style="text-align: center; justify-content: center; display: flex; flex-flow: row; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: 99%; vertical-align: top; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; background-color: #effaff; padding: 22px; height: auto;"><section style="justify-content: center; display: flex; flex-flow: row; margin-top: 10px;"><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: auto; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; min-width: 5%; height: auto;"></section><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: auto; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; background-color: #eefaff; margin-left: -14px; min-width: 5%; height: auto; padding: 7px;"><section style="text-align: left; justify-content: flex-start; display: flex; flex-flow: row;"><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; width: auto; min-width: 5%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: flex-end;"><section style="text-align: center;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: 46px; height: 36px; vertical-align: top; overflow: hidden; background-repeat: no-repeat; background-attachment: scroll; background-image: url('https://pic.app.58cammp.com/Fi-qiknxqZlLyFko76tnpep8ClA0'); background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-size: contain !important;"><section style="margin-top: 4px;"><section style="color: #ffffff;"><p><strong>4</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; width: auto; align-self: flex-end; flex: 0 0 auto; min-width: 5%; height: auto; padding-right: 6px; padding-left: 8px;"><section style="font-size: 18px; text-align: justify; color: #9ad4f2;"><p><strong>好好说话的家庭 </strong></p></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; width: auto; min-width: 5%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: flex-end; margin-left: -11px;"></section></section><section style="text-align: justify;"><p> </p></section><section style="font-size: 18px; text-align: justify;"><p> 有人说：“家庭教育好不好，看父母的说话方式就知道。”<br /><br /> 言语可以是一扇窗户，也可以是一把刀。温和的语言，是家庭中不可缺少的。一家人生活在一起，磕磕绊绊在所难免。在鸡毛蒜皮的小事上争对错，在细枝末节里辩输赢，最容易消耗感情。<br /><br /></p><p> 幸福的家庭，都有着好好说话的智慧。大事有商有量，小事不争对错，才能增进感情，留得住爱、守得住家。好好说话，是一个家庭最宝贵的生活习惯。</p></section></section></section></section><section></section><section style="font-size: 16px; color: #3e3e3e;"><section style="text-align: center; justify-content: center; display: flex; flex-flow: row; margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: 99%; vertical-align: top; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; background-color: #effaff; padding: 22px; height: auto;"><section style="justify-content: center; display: flex; flex-flow: row; margin-top: 10px;"><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: auto; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; min-width: 5%; height: auto;"></section><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: top; width: auto; align-self: flex-start; flex: 0 0 auto; background-color: #eefaff; margin-left: -14px; min-width: 5%; height: auto; padding: 7px;"><section style="text-align: left; justify-content: flex-start; display: flex; flex-flow: row;"><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; width: auto; min-width: 5%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: flex-end;"><section style="text-align: center;"><section style="display: inline-block; width: 46px; height: 36px; vertical-align: top; overflow: hidden; background-repeat: no-repeat; background-attachment: scroll; background-image: url('https://pic.app.58cammp.com/Fi-qiknxqZlLyFko76tnpep8ClA0'); background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-size: contain !important;"><section style="margin-top: 4px;"><section style="color: #ffffff;"><p><strong>5</strong></p></section></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; width: auto; align-self: flex-end; flex: 0 0 auto; min-width: 5%; height: auto; padding-right: 6px; padding-left: 8px;"><section style="font-size: 18px; text-align: justify; color: #9ad4f2;"><p><strong>有规矩的家庭 </strong></p></section></section></section></section><section style="display: inline-block; vertical-align: bottom; width: auto; min-width: 5%; flex: 0 0 auto; height: auto; align-self: flex-end; margin-left: -11px;"></section></section><section style="text-align: justify;"><p> </p></section><section style="font-size: 18px; text-align: justify;"><p> 没有规矩，不成方圆；不守规矩，无以成人。家庭中，永远不能缺少规矩；爱孩子与立规矩，从来不是单选题。一个家，既要有温暖，也要有规矩。<br /><br /></p><p> 家庭里立下规矩，父母也应该遵守。尤其是在对待孩子的方式上，更不能随心所欲。比如答应了孩子的事情就要尽量做到，这不仅关乎信任，更是在孩子心中树立一个守规矩的榜样。</p><p> </p><p> 孩子可以自己去往广阔的天地，而规矩的意义是让他守得住本心，不至于迷失方向。</p></section></section></section></section><p> </p><hr style="white-space: normal; 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