柬埔寨|柬单网|html{font-size:375%} 社交媒体上，越来越多已婚女性分享自己“偷偷去酒店开房”的日记。白天，她们是可靠的职场人，晚上，她们是体贴 ...

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酒店里，挤满了偷偷开房的已婚女性

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overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">社交媒体上，越来越多已婚女性分享自己“偷偷去酒店开房”的日记。<p style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px 0px 0em; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; clear: both; min-height: 1em; color: #222222; letter-spacing: 0.544px; font-size: 15px; visibility: visible; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-family: PingFang SC, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; color: #666666; letter-spacing: 1px; visibility: visible;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; 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overflow-wrap: break-word !important; font-family: PingFang SC, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; color: #666666; letter-spacing: 1px; visibility: visible;"><span style="-webkit-tap-highlight-color: transparent; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; visibility: visible;">中年女性，为什么必须“偷偷”去酒店？为什么不能光明正大说一句：“我想要一个人待会儿”？她们独处需求的背后，又藏着哪些被忽视的困境？</section></section></section> <section style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="height: auto !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FrSjKRe-swrsggictx5SoqEzBGsp" /></section> <span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">一位已婚女人，假装去上班。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">和家人说完去公司加班，转身，她走进距离家三公里以内的酒店，开了一间钟点房。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">点一份麻辣小龙虾，再来一杯奶茶，零食随手堆在床头；上厕所不关门，光着身子在房间里乱晃；泡澡能泡足一个小时，还要大声唱歌。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">最后，终于不必在带娃间隙，刷些碎片化的“奶头乐”短视频，可以沉下心来观看一部收藏已久的电影，<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">手机调成静音，她躺在酒店床上想：不是妈妈，不是妻子，不是女儿，不是打工人。此刻，我只是我自己，真好。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">那些曾经稀松平常的时刻，如今却成了最奢侈的享受。<section style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="width: 100%; height: auto !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FnH9Qc2q0M2UrQXx2wvSEjdo8mDf" /></section>社交平台上，网友的分享<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">社交媒体上，越来越多已婚已育的中年女性，开始分享自己“偷偷去酒店开房”的日记。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">她们的独处方式各不相同：<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">有人安静地看书、喝咖啡、发呆；有人精心安排一套自我护理仪式，泡澡、面膜、护发素、身体乳，一样不落；也有人选择先在酒店健身房运动，再回房间泡茶、冥想，让身心彻底放松。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">但更多时候，她们只是想补上一觉——挽救那份被伴侣的呼噜声、孩子的哭闹声切割得支离破碎的睡眠。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">“有了娃之后，我好像只剩下碎片式睡眠了。”一位妈妈分享。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">睡到自然醒，对中年妈妈来说，好像已是几百年前的事情。<section style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="width: 100%; height: auto !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FjZKvxfwubZuxTwzYRGlshbt_Au5" /></section><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">社交平台上，网友对“中年女性偷偷去酒店休息”的讨论<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"> 白天，中年妈妈们在职场和年轻同事拼精力；晚上回家，又要哄孩子、做家务。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">如果伴侣没有好的生活习惯，脱掉衣服随手一扔，用完的东西永远不知道放回原位。那糟了，心理的疲惫感几乎如同连续加班。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">家，变成了一个整理不完的战场：永远散落的玩具、凌乱的房间、随时可能响起的指责和念叨。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">久而久之，回家成为一种负担。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">想在周末休息，安静的时光也总会被孩子的吵闹打断，疲惫感甚至超过一周的工作。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">有些人甚至开始意外地享受加班和出差。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">“结婚生子前，从未感到出差住酒店会是一种享受的事。如今，儿子4岁，却渐渐开始爱上了去外地出差，出差都比在家呆着开心。”<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">作家伍尔夫说：女人要写作，需要一间属于自己的房间。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">对中年妈妈来讲，别说写作，连在厕所多待几分钟都可能被打断，孩子总会敲门、吵着要妈妈。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">即便孩子哄睡后，她们在家想放松看部剧，心态也不一样——时刻幻听孩子是不是又哭了，整个人精神紧绷。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"> <section style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="width: 100%; height: auto !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FuvOKdgco5WTNHD_7uYKFLFqszI6" /></section>社交平台上，网友的分享 <span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">于是，这种微小却重要的逃离开始流行：偶尔去酒店开个钟点房，彻底换个环境，让时间只属于自己。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">钟点房的市场，不再只是情侣的专属空间。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">携程数据显示，亚朵酒店非住宿场景的消费激增了 230%，其中 35 至 50 岁的女性占比高达 67%。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">这些客人有一些共同特点：不携带行李、停留4至8小时、拒绝客房服务。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">年轻人想要恢复能量，可能选择裸辞、旅游，但中年妈妈难以负担这样的时间、精力和经济成本，她们更偏爱家附近的酒店。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">二十平方米的小房间里，只有她自己。不必扮演任何社会角色，也不用承担任何责任。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">这是一场与自己的约会：<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">短暂，专属，简单，治愈，却足以让她在走出房门时，再次拾起面对生活的力气，继续应对家庭和生活的琐碎。<section style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="width: 578px; height: auto !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FvA3Ep9_nmqes3YvldXA45UDbB4y" /></section><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">《了不起的麦瑟尔夫人》 <span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">谁说再多的钱买不来真正的自由？<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">对中年女性而言，花 100 到 200 元，就能换来4小时独处的自由。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">酒店钟点房里的短暂独处，是对日常压力的一种微小反击，也是中年妈妈们不得不寻找的喘息空间。 <section style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="width: 100%; height: auto !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FsahTE9TI1O8HNXr2StDuvkhM1Jx" /></section><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">家，通常被视作避风港。但对中年女性而言，回家并不意味着休息，而是开始一份延续的工作。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">作家阿莉·霍克希尔德在《职场妈妈不下班》中提出“第二轮班”（The Second Shift）概念，描述女性在完成职场工作之后，还需继续承担家务和育儿的无偿劳动。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">对于眼里没活的人来说，很难想象一个整洁的家背后隐藏着多少隐形家务：<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">洗完的衣物不会自己晾好；<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">地板不会自己干净，猫毛每天都要清理；<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">抽油烟机需要每日擦拭，否则积累起来难以清理；<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">灶台和周围墙面也需要保持清洁，剩菜必须用保鲜膜盖好放入冰箱；<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">扔完垃圾后要更换垃圾袋，如果垃圾袋破损，垃圾桶及周围污渍也得清理。<section style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="width: 100%; height: auto !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/Fna-UPV7M86r2UzXoUwXyj2d26PA" /></section>《时时刻刻》<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"> <span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">这些看似琐碎的工作，日复一日地叠加，构成了女性家庭劳动的主体。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">智联研究院《2025年职场妈妈生存状况调查报告》指出：<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">职场妈妈每天家务时间超过两小时的比例达到36.1%，高于职场爸爸的27.6%，远高于已婚未育女性的20.6%和未婚女性的12.5%。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">这些数字背后，是无数职场女性习以为常却极少被看见的日常，也是她们“第二轮班”压力的真实写照。<section style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="width: 100%; height: auto !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FipESC24QW4zfogIvAL325IVVdlg" /></section><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"> <span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">中年女性的累，不只是身体上的疲惫，更是一种无处安放的精神负荷。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">许多家庭为了照顾孩子，选择与老人同住。一大家人住在一起，幸福感与压抑感往往同时袭来。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">父母帮忙接送孩子、准备三餐，生活便利，但有些东西却悄然变味。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">在长辈眼里，她们永远是长不大的孩子，相处缺乏边界；<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">在伴侣眼中，照顾孩子是妻子理所当然的义务，孩子的日常起居和学习辅导几乎全部落在她们下班后的肩上；<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">在孩子面前，她们又必须成为无所不能的“全能妈妈”。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">即便家庭再和谐，每个人都渴望独处的时刻。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">“妈妈”“妻子”“儿媳”，这些称呼像一层层厚重的外壳，将她们压得透不过气。<section style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="width: 100%; height: auto !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FvDdD-c4-Z6DOxDUjA7WsD2HpDyj" /></section><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"> <span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">更伤人的是，那些看不见的责任捆绑。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">孩子出生后，“母亲”这个身份，几乎无孔不入地侵入了中年女性的生活。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">很多事似乎只能妈妈来做，或者大家心照不宣地认定只有妈妈能做。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"> <span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">辅食要兼顾营养和口味；孩子发烧时，喂药往往要抱着哄着才能顺利吞下；睡前故事也必须一遍遍讲，直到孩子安然入睡。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">幼儿园的手工作业、购置换季的衣物、出门随身带的水壶和湿巾，这些细碎的琐事，几乎都落在她身上。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">长辈们虽然会帮衬，但在他们看来，那是为了让女儿能安心上班、处理“正事”。若是知道她只是想出去玩一玩，往往就不会再情愿了。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">于是，妈妈常常是那个被困住的人。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">当“母亲”成为女性身份的核心标签，个人需求往往只能被挤压到暗角。<section style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: bottom; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; width: 661px !important; visibility: visible !important; height: auto !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FlvPvof2z_PofPTZp0RElNsT2_Zj" alt="图片" /></section><section><section style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; line-height: 1em; text-align: center;">电影《82年生的金智英》</section></section><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"> <span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">无论妈妈去哪里，只要孩子知道妈妈没去上班，就一定要黏在身边。不带，就哭闹不休。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">假期旅行必定是“亲子行”，行程也必须围绕孩子安排——游乐场、博物馆，一切以孩子为中心。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">好不容易和朋友约了看电影、逛街，没过多久，家人的电话就追来了：“什么时候回家？孩子哭得停不下来。都当妈的人了，还不早点回来？”<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">这种质问像是提醒：你的唯一身份，是母亲。<section style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; vertical-align: bottom; box-sizing: border-box !important; overflow-wrap: break-word !important; width: 661px !important; visibility: visible !important; height: auto !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/Fv6FXFyzdxE4Ij1WJQyRuvQYZdmA" alt="图片" /></section><section><section style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; line-height: 1em; text-align: center;">电影《妈妈！》</section><section><section style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; line-height: 1.75em;">即便丈夫愿意参与育儿，孩子的第一依赖对象往往还是妈妈。</section><section style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; line-height: 1.75em;">长辈们也会不断强化这种观念——孩子发烧时说“等你妈回来”；买个玩具，也要先问一句，“你妈同意吗？”</section><section style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; line-height: 1.75em;">而在酒店的小房间里，一切都不一样。</section></section><p style="margin: 0px 16px; text-align: justify; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: normal; font-stretch: normal; font-size: 12px; line-height: 1.75em; font-family: PingFang SC; font-size-adjust: none; font-kerning: auto; font-variant-alternates: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-numeric: normal; font-variant-east-asian: normal; font-variant-position: normal; font-feature-settings: normal; font-optical-sizing: auto; font-variation-settings: normal; color: #000000; min-height: 17px;"> <span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">这里没有称呼，没有角色，没有任何期望，只有一个独立的自己。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"> </section><section style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="height: auto !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FlSsZDCOQlXqy1R4rOg-1-oPon5o" /></section><section style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"> </section><section style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">中年妈妈们的逃离，未必一定要去酒店。</section><section style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">公园、KTV、咖啡店、洗浴中心，甚至宜家样板间，都可能成为她们的短暂自由空间。</section><section style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">午休时，她可能不回家，而是去办张按摩卡、洗头卡，把那短暂的一两个小时，当作自己的小假期；</section><section style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">晚上说去加班，却可能溜进书店翻几页闲书，看一场一个人的电影，或只是在空无一人的办公室里静静坐着，不做任何事，让自己彻底放松。</section><section style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">有人会整整一天待在洗浴中心，像上班一样出门，晚上回家时，整个人都轻盈了许多。</section><section style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">无论选择哪种方式，有一点始终相同——这种自由，必须是偷偷的。</section><section style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px; line-height: 1.75em;"></section><section><section><section style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="width: 100%; height: auto !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FtG0cQ5IIR9zzu6ngzS-nxGYdfq1" /></section>《末路狂花》<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">这份偷来的闲暇，总伴随着一份难以言说的愧疚。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">对许多妈妈而言，坦诚表达“我需要休息”，比休息本身更需要勇气。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">“想想老人帮忙带娃也不容易，自己去休息，总觉得不妥。”有妈妈这样说。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">更何况，现代家庭的节奏快，孩子的活动、兴趣班、作业辅导，都需要及时跟进。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">长辈们纵然拼尽全力，也难免力不从心。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">一位女性分享了自己的经历：每次在酒店钟点房享受短暂自由时，一想到此刻老人正替自己承担带娃的辛苦，欢愉便瞬间被负罪感冲淡。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">网友感慨：“女人真老实，一个人在钟点房休息一会儿都有负罪感。”<section style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="width: 100%; height: auto !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FkpX_xXOfMexOWiw3tnZoQEPd7BN" /></section>社交平台上，网友的讨论<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">偷偷逃离，也是一种避免被质疑的策略。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">在许多人眼中，“母亲”这个角色天然与奉献绑定。任何形式的自我取悦、短暂抽离，都可能被贴上“自私”、“逃避”、甚至“不负责任”的标签。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">开个钟点房、去咖啡店待一会儿、去洗浴中心泡澡。这些看似微小的自我享受，总会引来家人的反对：<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">“这钱花得不值吧？<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">家里不能休息吗？孩子的快乐，难道不更重要吗？”<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">质疑不仅来自周围，时间久了，这种声音也会悄然内化，成为女性自我审视的标尺。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">即便只是短短几小时的休息，她们也容易被责任感和道德感拉扯得心里发紧。<section style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="width: 100%; height: auto !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FsO6nkXFmlWvDSlBDeo_Nd6VonRF" /></section>社交平台上，网友的讨论<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;"> <span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">更重要的是，她们渴望一种不必解释的自由。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">生活已经够累了，如果每一次短暂的独处都要向家人说明理由、辩解必要性，还要承受被误解或不理解的可能，身心负担只会成倍增加。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">解释本身，也是一种额外的情绪劳动：要注意语气，<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">要斟酌措辞，更要衡量怎么说，才不会伤害身边人的感情。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">还要在心里反复盘算：家人会不会担心我的状况？孩子会不会哭闹？伴侣会不会觉得我太自私？<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">因此，偷偷的自由显得尤为珍贵——不必解释、不必辩解、没有质疑，只是纯粹地、<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">完整地，拥有一段属于自己的时间和空间。<section style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; line-height: 1.75em; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img" style="width: 562px; height: auto !important;" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/FoPrFTY43nD2uLVQnsPX3BKdjwwc" /></section>《末路狂花》 <span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">作家三毛曾写道，母亲的腿上，好似绑着一条无形的链子，那条链子的长<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">度，只够她在厨房和家中走来走去。大门虽未上锁，但她心里的爱，<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;" data-pm-slice="">却使她甘心情愿把自己锁了一辈子。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">中年妈妈的短暂逃离，就像在链子之外，<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">偷来的一寸自由天地。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">她们并非逃避家庭，而是为了积蓄力量，更好地回归——<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">在长辈抱怨时能够坦然以对，在伴侣无所作为时能够心平气和，在孩子吵闹时不再失控怒吼。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">走出酒店，她会重新戴上“妈妈”“妻子”“职场人”的身份标签，回到现实生活的轨道。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">但在酒店的四小时里，她们找回了自我——那个久违的、被生活压得几乎看不见的“我”。<span style="color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.9); font-size: 17px; font-family: mp-quote, PingFang SC, system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif; letter-spacing: 0.034em; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal;">来源：最人物网</section></section>  </div>

玉米也太甜了 发表于 5 天前

不过现在好转了太多了，现在谈恋爱，男生必须会做饭，也要带孩子，毕竟新时代独立女性多了，所以这样的情况在00后里边很少了

lijin 发表于 4 天前

现在的酒店没生意了，你就瞎敷衍吧

伊利qq星 发表于 5 天前

现代的生活，各方面压力太大了

无语“伦”比 发表于 5 天前

估计没人信

冷净观察 发表于 5 天前

乱七八糟，无聊至极。

yuxin 发表于 5 天前

无话可说

柬巴基印度印尼 发表于 5 天前

有钱天天开房啊，安排

Fxm1030 发表于 5 天前

开酒店

青松（柬埔寨） 发表于 5 天前

渣逼越来越多

原始逻辑 发表于 5 天前

她老公或父母信吗？

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柬埔寨柬单网's Archiver

酒店里，挤满了偷偷开房的已婚女性