我的“鸡娃”三件事：户外运动、持续阅读、大量聊天
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">“你们家考不考英语</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">ket\pet</span></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">？听说新课改后，初中英语难度加大很多？”</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">“</span></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">奥数几年级开始好，三年级了学什么奥数课呀？小学成绩再好，不学点奥数拓展思维，初中成绩很难提上去？</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">”</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">“</span></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">你们家有上啥拓展兴趣班吗？</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">”</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">有没有发现，上了小学后，大家关注孩子的焦点自动转为关于“选拔”相关的内容。而幼儿园时期，关注的重点：</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">孩子身体长高了没？</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">吃好睡好类没？</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">孩子学校社交怎样，有没有受欺负？</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">孩子阅读哪些书籍？</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px; font-weight: bold;">对孩子的这些关注是否少了很多。育儿是一件很私人的事情，每个家庭根据自家经济水平、人力资源、育儿理念，都有不一样的看法或做法。</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">育儿</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-size: 15px;">9</span></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">年，两娃上小学后，我当然也不自觉关心孩子“成绩”的事情。除了关心“成绩”，我更关心：</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><br /></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px; font-weight: bold;">孩子是否身心健康？</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px; font-weight: bold;">对世界是否充满热情和好奇心？</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px; font-weight: bold;">对自己是否充满信心？抗压力怎样？</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">因此，根据自己家庭情况，我目前“鸡娃“三件事有运动、阅读、大量聊天。</span></span></p><p> </p><p><strong style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">运动：藏在身体里的成长“秘密”</span></span></strong></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">如果让我想象我期待孩子长大成人的样子，希望是高大魁梧、阳光开朗、学识渊博。不言而喻，“高”是我“鸡娃”内容之一。</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">要孩子长高，先天因素改变不了，但后天因素，如运动、睡眠、饮食一直是我育儿关心的重点。</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">因为运动是藏着身体里的成长“秘密”。跳绳、篮球等跳跃类运动，加速骨骼生长和骨密度提升，利于孩子长高；跑步、游泳等有氧运动则可以提升孩子肺活量，增强孩子耐力。</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">热爱运动的孩子，远离肥胖带来疾病风险，还能增强身体免疫力，治愈药物都难以治疗的过敏性鼻炎。</span></span></p><p style="margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;"><span style="font-family: 宋体;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_insertlocalimg" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/Fscvk0RhAASQ1erUl3c8pkUZ0GdR" /></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px; font-weight: bold;">此外，运动还在你看不见的地方悄悄激发孩子大脑潜能。如运动增加的大脑血氧供应，刺激神经元生长，提高学习效率；分泌的多巴胺、血清素等增强孩子专注力、记忆力等；运动后释放内啡肽，还可以缓解孩子学习压力和焦虑。</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">因此，不用担心孩子与同伴疯跑、追逐或者打球等会影响孩子学习。紧张学习之外，适度的运动是孩子身体发育、健康成长的加速器。</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">从幼儿园中班起，我一直坚持让孩子保持一周一节</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-size: 15px;">1.5-2</span></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">小时篮球课，平时周末尽量安排至少半天亲子运动或户外活动。</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">在一节节篮球课、一次次篮球比赛、一次次与伙伴打篮球中，我可以感受到运动在慢慢增强孩子抗挫力，提升孩子自信心、团队协作能力。</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 17px; font-weight: bold;">阅读：打开精神世界大门的“魔法钥匙”</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-size: 15px;">“</span></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">世界如此之大。慢慢更新自己，慢慢理解这个世界。</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-size: 15px;">”</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">这是我对自己的期待，保持阅读，了解自己，理解世界，能够在理想与现实冲突下，找到内心的平和与自洽。</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px; font-weight: bold;">在我看来，学校</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-size: 15px; font-weight: bold;">9</span></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px; font-weight: bold;">年义务教育是通识教育，以“德智体美劳”为方针。现实中，学校教育更重视“智”方面“硬实力”的学习。</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px; font-weight: bold;">而财商、社交、情绪调节、抗压力等“软实力”，则需要我们现实实践与阅读结合中去领会与构建。</span></span></p><section style="text-align: center; margin-left: 16px; margin-right: 16px;"><img class="rich_pages wxw-img js_insertlocalimg" src="https://pic.app.58cammp.com/Fv52joq2SMXil7BzGfg8MjyDi2uk" /></section><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">阅读是打开精神世界大门的“魔法钥匙”，一本本的书籍犹如一个个魔法世界。读过的好书会如米饭一样，藏在孩子的一言一行里。</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px; font-weight: bold;">爱阅读的孩子如竹子成长一样，前几年尽管成长得很慢，当他默默地吸足营养，终有一天会“节节高升”。</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">如何让孩子爱上阅读？读哪些好书？这也是我一直“鸡娃”重点。</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px; font-weight: bold;">搭建舒服的阅读环境。</span><span style="font-size: 15px;">自从搬新家，我们日积月累的书籍有一个家。老公喜欢陪娃读历史，我比较喜欢引导孩子多读英语类分级阅读如牛津树、桥梁书如《</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-size: 15px;">flyguy</span></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">》、《</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-size: 15px;">frog and tode</span></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">》</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px; font-weight: bold;">自己多阅读，做孩子的榜样：</span><span style="font-size: 15px;">孩子上不认识字时候，主要我读给孩子听；过度自主阅读时候，一人读一句；现在能自主阅读，餐桌或睡前半个小时可以一起谈论读过的书籍内容。</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">低年级时候，阅读主要以孩子兴趣为主，激发孩子阅读中识字、积累词汇量、语感。现在哥哥进入中高年级，开始做一些精读，如知道书籍作者故事、书籍背景、文章结构内容好句等进行精读。</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 17px; font-weight: bold;">大量聊天：建立良好亲子关系的基石</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">多年前，我读过一本书《父母的语言》。这本书大量论证给出一个颠覆性的结论：最好的教育是免费的。</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px; font-weight: bold;">最好的教育藏在父母的语言里。尤其是</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-size: 15px; font-weight: bold;">0-6</span></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px; font-weight: bold;">岁早期教育理，父母的语言输入质量决定孩子未来的学习力、专注力与共情力。</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">那么什么是高质量的语言沟通？</span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">与孩子沟通，多用成长型思维语言，如肯定孩子努力的过程，多鼓励孩子具体的行为；</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">少用情绪化的语言，父母对孩子不良行为尽量不要过于情绪化否定，而要温柔而坚定告诉孩子正确行为，并鼓励孩子践行良好的行为习惯；</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">坚持每日“高质量对话”</span></span><span lang="EN-US"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">15</span></span><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 14px; color: #888888;">分钟以上，了解孩子困难，并给予恰当的引导。</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">上了小学后，工作日孩子在学校上课，晚上回来可能又忙于完成作业。我们与孩子沟通时间明显少于学龄前。</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px;">我发现这阶段，父母在接送孩子、睡前、吃晚饭、周末等空余时间注重与孩子大量聊天，不仅可以及时了解到孩子在学校遇到哪些社交难题、难以排解情绪等，还可以就此与孩子建立亲密的关系。</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-fareast-theme-font: minor-fareast; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-theme-font: minor-latin;"><span style="font-size: 15px; font-weight: bold;">在我看来，养育是如同养花，花时间研究花的特点，在不同阶段给予适当的营养、阳光雨露，花时间了，花就开了。</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-ascii-theme-font: minor-latin; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; 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